Wise words indeed... If I were to say to my mother the koran is written by men, she'd think me mad...

We find common ground in the decency of kindness and generosity in practical ways like her cooking a meal, me giving her a massage or planting peas and sunflowers in her garden, which she can enjoy that vision of life/beauty /nature from the window when it's too cold and windy for her to go outside as a 92 year old.