This is my exact experience while teaching in colleges in the U.K.
There’s also an additional burden of… I’ve been nice to you and u are now suggesting I am racist in doing xy or z!
Very soon we start to wonder if we over reacted, have got that proverbial chip on the shoulder .
It’s so wearying . I am utterly enjoying space away from all that complexity . I think working class spaces are better as people are more straightforward than the pretentious middle class .