This is a terrible erasure of those of us with entitled, nacissistic family members who make endless demands which lead to exhuastion, ill health and a huge loss of the will to live in the face of constant abuse... so you finally try to place some bounderies, get labelled , scapegoated, and further abuse... while you are trying to survive and make sense of this onslaught, any people you meet outside of the family are suppoed to give you are wide berth? Terrible advice... and probably a big factor in suicides here no-one outise th efamily cares much, and those within, see you as a resource to use and use up.