This article is so very apt for me to consider, as my younger sister turned up on my doorstep after 20 year gap between when she last visited me and this very morning. She'd heard I'd been ill from our mother and brought flowers and food!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was nice to her... after all, she drove 20 miles to get here... I don't think she'll ever say sorry for her lashing out at me when her marriage broke down... slandering my character in ways that can only be described as psychotic, but hey ho... I'm open to seeing what happens next.