The great reveal occured when I inadvertently recorded a conversation (my iPad record feature was on) by the biggest manipulator whose levels of selfishness would be insulting to animals to call 'bestial'.
The deflections, denials, outfit lies, said with a look one innocence or fake puzzlement, then all the ... ugh. promises and future faking.
I say, record record record, because you can go over and play back at your leisure and analyse that arse out of your existence !