The arrogance and indifference of second and third generation South Asians living in England, is difficult to behold. Their grandparents definitely suffered poverty, but instead of the family becoming benevolent, they too became predators and parasites when they got a bit of success - it all went to their heads, and their hearts were nullified and numbed. I've refused gold from my parents, or wearing fancy fashionable clothes to the stupid weddings which are all about showing off.