Thanks for your clarification Julie E Hubbel... I think it's fair to say we read, write, communicate in general , to learn and share experiences that point to human experience in a general sense, so you don't need to take offence or insist what you are writing is only for a specific situation or person... obviously I'm relating your experience to mine or others in my world... to discern a pattern ...

I do think if someone is working hard, as you said, to gaslight you, yet for them to claim not know what they are doing is something I would find hard to believe... it speaks to my experience of gaslighting that I noticed the erasure of my experience or point of view and the person pleads innocence, which is very much integral to their attempted gaslighting ! So it doesn't mean I'm not reading your article carefully, but more that I'm sharing my own experience of gaslighting. Thanks for your clarifiation anyway.

I’m an artistic writer who loves to use pen, paper, clay and computer to support self and societal health, empowering thru the light of truthtelling stories.

I’m an artistic writer who loves to use pen, paper, clay and computer to support self and societal health, empowering thru the light of truthtelling stories.