Thank you for your interesting comment. I believe it's a fallacy to suggest that 'will to power', to use Niietszhe's term, is exerted in an unconscious way.
I see that when women bravely and consciously reject the traditional forms of relationships that smack of ownership and subservience, they are then mendaciously hijacked by males pretending to be for liberation and women's rights, but manipulating us into yet more ugly permutations of abusive and coercive control, to fulfil their needs for dominance.