So in other words, teh USA does not want weapons close to their border yet Russian should accept that?

NATO is not a 'defensive ' alliance at all. They ahve invaded countries unilaterally that are far form the borders of the USA/Europe, such as Iraq, Afghanistan etc etc...

You are sadly delusional if you think the world must for ever accept the dehumanising double standards that the White Empire has been imposing everywhere for the past 500 years.