I work full time and blog on the side. My income streams enable me to provide health insurance for my husband. They also allow me to pay all of the mortgage. We used to both pay half, but when I got a better job, I told him I would take care of it so that he could put more money into filmmaking or paying off his debt.
Reverse that decision - let him care about making enough to pay his share of the mortgage and pay his own debts off. What a cheek !