My Lovely Suque, your words feel like gold for my soul as I received so little validation for my feelings of disgust and outrage from the two white feminist friends...

Then a part of you wonders why you are reacting so strongly ... then you start thinking of all the horrific physical attacks on women, and on that scale of attack, maybe it does look like an over reaction. But my feelings of shock at the betrayal, and my distress, were real enough to me.