Please stop explaining yourself to the narc — It is human nature to want to feel heard, seen, and understood by others, especially our loved ones. When we feel something is off with the communication or the interpretation with our intimate partner, we tend to explain ourselves in different ways, hoping to connect; to be seen, heard, understood…

Like a posse of deranged clowns stubbornly clinging to some lead balloons in the Mariana trench, the Conservative Party remains ever committed to its unrelenting quest to hit rock bottom. …

A simple math equation is working us all to death — Believe it or not, we’re only at the beginning stages of the biggest fraud in human history. This colossal con is called “The Great Reset,” and it is nothing more than a reset to feudalism (but with surveillance devices called iPhones.) In January 2021, the hyper-elitist World Economic Forum —…

Understanding primary supply — As a complex trauma therapist who specializes in treating trauma incurred through narcissistic abuse, I encounter many spouses desperate to escape from the perfidious torment of marriage to a malignant narcissist. …

And how to overcome it — One of the worst jobs I’ve ever had was, on the face of it, a perfectly good job. Small agency, small but dedicated team, standard clients, ok salary, decent job title, work I was perfectly capable of doing. And it left me a complete wreck. I don’t mean that lightly…

First, I do not suggest provoking a narcissist. Why? Well they can be unpredictable and if you go low, they will go lower. Their lack of empathy and minimal conscience makes hurting you very easy for them. Narcissists like to get even and have the last word; they will seek…

Edit: It’s 2023, and I’m circling back to this article with a deeper, more profound knowledge of what I experienced. Nathan was the first abusive relationship that I experienced, and right after him I began a situationship with another man who embodied many of the same traits as Nathan, but…

The hoovering stage of the narcissistic abuse cycle. — Hoovering is the narcissistic abuse tactic used on prior victims to suck them back into the narcissist's drama. To be hoovered, you must have been idealised, devalued, and discarded previously. “A narcissist only returns again and again to ensure that you never move on from the pain he (or she)…

Toxic people have an irrational hatred for those who want to achieve anything in life. I am not sure what that is about, but I know from my own life that whenever I try and accomplish anything, there were always negative toxic people who would stand in my way. What…

How pick-up artists and nice guys perceive dating — Rejection stings. And yet, being rejected is an inevitable part of the dating process. However, for some men, this reality is almost unbearable. In their logic, they’re entitled to sex, love, and the girlfriend of their choosing. …

Myths About Good Men & Bad Girls Cultural Sexualization and Objectification of Women Most people with narcissistic personality disorder are made, not born into it like a psychopath. Sometimes, the conditions overlap and the narcopath is created. Mental health professionals have long asserted that people with NPD are created by extreme trauma, abuse, or neglect in their…