It probably isn't very wise to summarise a person's entire vale system form ONE article. One has to generalise to describe the reality we are experiencing but that doe snot mean the person think s in dichotomies, as u will understand if you read this article:

https://medium.com/liberation-works/who-colludes-and-who-confronts-is-not-a-function-of-colour-56cdba776ee5

I agree with your comment overall and thank you for it, but aim not to start a reasonable dialogue with' You don't get it". For some people that would be a red flag to a bull and they would not respond to you kindly or even in a neutral tone. In fact you are provoking antagonism, which I am sure is not what you want...

So, as you yourself, say, let's not fan the flames of a 'us- them' mentality.