I would have said, 'what sort of a woman, hurts another woman, by associating with a married man?
When a friend of mine was devastated by her husband going off with someone else, i supported ehr as much as I could.
I was shocked when she, a year or so later, started a relationship with a married man. I asked her how she could do to another woman, what was done to her? When she shrugged and repleid she was putting her needs first, I knew the friendship was over.
We never communicated again.