I feel I've been a very slow learner of the truths about white domination and sense of entitlement... the solitude created by the covid rules extending over such a long time was essential to gaining perspective as I discerned patterns that have repeated in so many different spheres of life. But reading writers like your self on Medium, and Marley K. Allison Gaines, Rebecca Stevens, Walter Rhein, has been a big help too, creating a sense of community I haven't had.