I am so sorry - I can truly understand that, facing scapegoating by my family of origin and literal dismissals from workplaces.

I sincerely wanted to express appreciation for the time and trouble you took to respond to me in depth and I felt that effort should be acknowledged and so I offered to publish your comment as an article.

The offer stands and if you prefer, I'll punish as a comment I wish to respond to in an article. thus saving you time .