Honestly, it's better to stay alone and focus on healing oneself, instead of jumping straight from one relationship to another and then another.... collecting wounds and becoming emot9onally drained and spiritually diminished in the process. what's 'liberating' about that? The narrative of white feminism - of individualism , and sexual 'liberation', has become another conduit for male parasitism and control, in additon to the forces of patriarchal religions.