Definitely predatory women exist, and not just rich whyte women going to the super exploited, occupied nations of the Global South.

But let's not forget that statistically, more than 90 per cent of crimes are perpetrated by men.

I agree with you that in looking at trends/what is the general norm(male entitlement, undergirded by every religion/social norms) the individuals who dare to be be different such as yourself - can be swamped and tarred with the same brush, so to speak.