Congratulations that you saw through the bullshit and have develoeped the courage to name him publicly and share this detailed analysis. Bravo!
I think such monsters ahve used the feminsit movement to gain power over women; when societal norms were that you take time to get to know each over, and engagements would last a year or two, before and intimacy was allowed, it meant that a facade and bad intentions, could more easily be discovered.