As a woman of colour living in in the ever so polite Uk, and surrounded as I alwys ahve been by its middle class educationalists who can never see theirpreferences and choices as racist and therefore as violating, the sad thing is, when we are surrounded by White people, and there is little sustained history of community activism in comparison with the openly genocidal Whites of the Amerikka, we can eaisly be persuaded that you, little black/brown person are the problem. Respect for Marley K's brilliant insightfulness - thank you! Your witting provides much clarity.